I am looking for a date or a fling.
Intensely creative guy, looking to date. I am a writer and university prof. I have usually been in a long-term relationship and I would like to be again. Till then, I am happy with all kinds of entertainments. I am tender, funny, and romantic. I put a lot into sex, and expect the same. I also think getting Japanese noodles and then seeing a film at the Kabuki is one form of heaven. I'm a nurturing kind of guy--always cooking for my friends. I am 5'10" and 195, so stocky, with big chest and shoulders, white hair on chest, some on shoulders and back. Sort of your classic daddy/bear, though not so heavy. HIV-, sane and relaxed. Kissing is important. I like sex mild and wild, tender. I am more of a bottom or bottom/vers these days.
About My Match
A slim to average build, muscles are nice. Say, 22 to 49 yo with a lot of wiggle room, and a head with something in it. Someone with cultural interests would be great.
empathy, intelligence, good manners