Seeking buddy for more than bedroom adventures.
Mature (and hopefully still maturing) but youthful northsider; a bit intellectual, but smart enough to know where my education is lacking; like good, simple food, but isn't a foodie; like good cinema, and have been known to shoot a few good clips himself; am no stranger to leather, but tiring of its not-so-vague adolescent behavior and self-imposed stereotypes; am masculine enough to pass as straight, but am not in the closet and not about to crawl back in. Most urban folk "read" me as gay, and that's fine. I follow eco issues, new music, science in general, original writing and thinking, and media. I've been a top most of my life, but am known to flip. Anglo-Bavarian mix with a little Metis for local flavor. Enjoy camping sometimes; travel in US and Canada, occasionally beyond. Scuba often; love being underwater.
About My Match
A man who can spell and punctuate; who is roughly my age (+ or - 7 years or less); who isn't clinging or needy, but is fairly self-actualized (strength and independence are actually hot to me - not to be confused with being just damned aloof or hard to get); who plays safe and clean in bed, but has a dirty mind the rest of the time; who isn't hung up on physique and his self-image, regardless of how ideal (or not) he may be; and who is solvent. Physical attributes I like: body lean to stocky; bearded most of the time on most of the face that allows it; hirsuteness, masculinity, a nice chest, and maybe balding or receding hairline; salt + pepper is hot.
tobacco, recreational drugs.